As when preparing a succulent dish to eat, there must be a slow sizzle otherwise you will scorch your meal. Spanking is much the same in that there must be a warm-up period before you go for gold. Its not so much the destination but the journey that is of value. Sometimes spanking can be lots of fun as well as pleasurable for the recipient as it stimulates surrounding areas and increases circulation. It can also be a fun alternative to bickering. Here are some helpful tips: 1) Gently caress your partner's naked or clothed bottom. You may progressively start over the clothes and remove layers as you see fit.2) Begin with light taps, cupping your hand and leaving your wrist loose (to mitigate any negative impact on your wrist). Spank with the palm of your hand, keeping your fingers close. 3) Remove jewelry such as rings or watches as they may cause unecessary cuts or injury. Every so often rub & caress the butt cheeks as they do when waxing to reduce the sensation of pain. 4) Stay within the lower quadrant of the buttocks (the fleshy part). Do not go too high (avoid the kidneys) and too low you might hit the genitals, which could be a good or bad thing. 5) Increase intensity. Vary strokes. Quick ones in sequence. Firm ones, use your imagination. Count out loud or your partner can count. If you love them you can caress their genitals. Optional: Paddles, spoons, spatulas, gloves, crops, floggers, canes Positions: Over-the-knee, bent over a chair, bent over a bed, bent over the kitchen table, hands on their knees, standing hands tied, on their stomach on the bed, on their knees, over a bench, on their back with legs in the air. Use your imagination and have fun! If you have questions post a comment and I will reply. Spanking Coach Montreal Dominatrix www.mymistresssharon.com |





